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Post by Sofia Alexandra on Mar 31, 2005 21:03:39 GMT 1
Ok, so now what inspired me to write this? Well, I'm in Stockholm right now, and I caught sight of a cute guy on the subway. And I mean cute. Almost Russian. A bit Abt-ish, even. And I like Russian dudes of the Abt kind. Unfortunately I had my whole family with me on the subway, so I wasn't in a position to "make a move"... Though of course, I wouldn't know how to do that anyway, I just ain't no good at flirting... Anyone got any advice?
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Post by Sunshine Lizzie on Apr 1, 2005 8:36:29 GMT 1
well, I´m not really the person to give any advice but I always think that it´s best just to be yourself and act naturally... I think it´s useless to act like someone you´re not just to get a boy´s attention, because though you may "catch" him that way, it won´t be the "real" you that attracted his attention, but the "you" that you were playing to be and that will leave you pretending to be someone you´re not, though it may not be dramatic, it is still not pleasant hope it makes at least a little sense
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Post by Sofia Alexandra on Apr 1, 2005 8:59:25 GMT 1
It makes sense... But I still don't know how to go from flirting to actually talking to some cute dude... I guess it depends on the situation?
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Post by Sunshine Lizzie on Apr 1, 2005 10:29:54 GMT 1
lol I´ll tell you this funny story that happened to me on wednesday I was at a ballroom dance and towards the end, I went to buy myself a drink (I was there with my sister, it was her final dance lesson)...anyway...I came to the bar and there was this sorta cute waiter there...and before I even opened my mouth, he was like: "You´ll have some wine, right?" and I´m like: "One mineral water, please" and he´s like: "No, I insist that you have wine" and I´m like (thinking - OMG, this guy is umm...flirting with me ) so: "No, I insist i will have some water - I can´t drink alcohol because i am driving" and then he´s like: Have some wine and then I´ll drive you home" me - well, in the end, i got a mineral water for free
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Post by SweetFranzi on Apr 1, 2005 14:35:08 GMT 1
With some flirting you can always get some stuff for free I was last week with a friend to an expedition in Amsterdam, but the price was 10 euro per ticket, we were: please can we have maybe a little discount? The cute guy let us in for 2 euro per persone But the kind of guys I like is the Mediterranean-type. Dark hair, dark eyes, . Spanish, Portugees , Italian, Turkish.
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Post by deedeelocks on Apr 1, 2005 15:51:07 GMT 1
i like exactly the opposite give me blond, blue eyes
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Post by icyvicky on Apr 1, 2005 16:17:44 GMT 1
LOL and I'd like someone with dark hair and blue eyes ;D The thing with the flirting is absolutely right! Last weekend i was out with some freind at a birthday... we could drink untill midnight how much we wanted but after then we had to pay (cause it was at a bar)... after that the waiter came asked what we'd like and we asked if it was still for free *puppyeyes* and he said :"Ok, the last time" and we were like "4 cokes, please" LOL and he really did that! It is so easy as a girl
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Post by Sunshine Lizzie on Apr 1, 2005 16:22:26 GMT 1
PML 4!!! anyway, I wasn´t flirting... ...just trying to get my water and my preference - Oh, BLUE EYES!! any shade...yes, please...
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Post by icyvicky on Apr 1, 2005 16:26:56 GMT 1
PML 4!!! But i wasn't the one to say that! my friend and i was like "Now you are getting really perky!!" and she said"what? guys would do everything for a smile! they are so easy to see through lol" well, she is right and i totally understand this situation when you don't flrit and then someone's just trying to start while you just wanted to have a water... like Hello? did you understand me correctly i want to have a water!
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Post by Sunshine Lizzie on Apr 1, 2005 16:37:59 GMT 1
*giggle* well, I´m not really into this flirting thing, so but it´s true that a pleasant smile can sometimes get you things that would otherwise be impossible
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Post by Cairnsy on Apr 1, 2005 17:39:05 GMT 1
I'm not good at fliritng. And when I for once decide to make a move, I'm sure to embarass myself... Anyway, but I already have a date for final ex prom, wheeee! (and he looks like Ilia Kulik!) (Don't ask me how I did though...the cute guys NEVER want to go out with me. It's always crazy old, guys hitting on me, which is just PLAIN annoying)
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Post by Melanie on Apr 1, 2005 17:40:53 GMT 1
Dark hair and usually darkish eyes every time, but sometimes greeny blue is nice too.
I'm actually off all men right now. I mean I like them, but only as much as being friends.
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Post by SweetFranzi on Apr 1, 2005 18:33:57 GMT 1
Even Stephane?
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Post by Sofia Alexandra on Apr 1, 2005 23:26:39 GMT 1
Alas, I recognise that situation too...
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Post by icyvicky on Apr 2, 2005 11:12:45 GMT 1
the cute guys NEVER want to go out with me. It's always crazy old, guys hitting on me, which is just PLAIN annoying) ah, you taking my words, girl... i so feel with you! But wheeee for the ilia kulik date!!!! ;D
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